Where?

Where is the hope? I've recently found a widow/widowers support site and really enjoy it. I've enjoyed finding people "like me" - those who are where I am at so to speak. However, I am finding just how true His word is. And of course I cannot find exactly which scripture I mean, lol! I'm looking for the one that tells us we are in this world but not of it. Yes, Doug's home going sucks and I miss him terribly, would trade all that I have just to hold him again, yet I do not live there. I've been so blessed to be surrounded by those who love me enough not to leave me where I am at and encourage me along this path in this valley. My hope is in Him and Him alone. Man has failed me, yet my God will never leave me nor forsake me. My new hope is that there can be a Light shined so those who "are like me" can have that same hope...